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{UAH} Mulindwa@Men often times ponder over why women dont want their mate watching pornography.

Men often times ponder over why women dont want their mate watching pornography.

Well I will answer this for you so that it will forever be understood. Here goes...

Pornography is a corruption of passion and a destroyer of that interconnection that the black man and woman once shared through love making. Before colonialism, love making was a spiritual act and this practice was taken into the highest consideration before being performed.

This ritual could last for hours or even days in order to ensure that the highest spiritual connection could be obtained between the man and the woman. Sometimes the women would gather and help one another to mentally, emotionally, and spiritually prepare for the ritual through song and dance, storytelling, or even festivals with lots of food and mind altering drinks. The men would do the same. In some cultures the men would make up their faces, put adornments in their hair, and even oil their skin to have a healthy glow and perform in front of a crowd while the women would stare intensely at the one that she has chosen as a lover.

Another practice that I find to be quite interesting is that the elders of the tribe would chop down a tree with smooth bark and carve a dildo for the woman who was about to lose her virginity. Once it was absolutely smooth and polished "safe to use" the elder women would take the young virgin into a hut and have her to squat over the penis shaped dildo and hold on to her arms for support as she would glide her yoni up and down the dildo in order to become loosened and accustomed to the feeling of having something inside of her. This was also to ensure that she would be able to satisfy her partner without too much screaming and squirming around. Once the young virgin was comfortable with using the dildo she would be given a few days to heal. By the end of the ritual there would be a huge gathering, a festival, in order to heighten the moment of the young woman walking into her husband's tent to make love for the first time.

Doesn't this sound amazing?? I would have loved to have lived during such a time! There's nothing like having the elders to show you the way and be there with you every step.

Fast forward to modern times and we realize that sex has become a very carnal act that has nothing to do with falling in love and connecting with your life partner. It has everything to do with adding a notch to your belt or just getting a random orgasm with no strings attached.

When making love to your partner if you are uncomfortable with letting out every moan that arise in the seat of your soul or staring intently into her eyes with the sole purpose of loving and healing her then you've never quite figured it out. This is the corruption of pornography. There's no reason to ask mundane questions or make erroneous statements during love making. "Who's is it.. Is it good... Etc.. This is a time of creation which is the most powerful ability displayed by human flesh.

Allaah gives the best to those who leave the choice to Him."And if Allah touches you with harm, none can remove it but He, and if He touches you with good, then He is Able to do all things." (6:17)

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