{UAH} THE BEAUTY OF BEING GAY

 

                                                                                       The Beauty of Being Gay

 

                                                                                    Oluwatoyin Vincent Adepoju

 

 

 

Being gay is natural.

It is a variation in nature.

The emotional, physical and mental joys of this lifestyle demonstrate the beauty of being a gay man or woman.

These demonstrate people can see how human, how natural, gay people are. 

People can understand that persecuting gay people is equivalent to persecuting oneself.

The Physical Dimension

Gay people are human and natural like all people.

All the emotions heterosexual people feel, gay people also experience.

Gay people also realise that anything that compromises the will of another is wrong, so paedophilia and other infringements on peoples' will are out. 

Having noted that, the feel of a man's hard chest muscles under your hands as you roam those muscles deliciously, caressing his exquisitely tight buttocks, grasping the raging virility of his manhood, is a wonderful experience.

Have you felt the soft palpitations of a woman's breast, as you kneed them into ecstasy?

Can anyone understand a woman's body better than another woman?

Where men would fumble, a woman would not fumble.

The spaces of ecstasy, the lips below, the little red knob in the red, dark and delicious space, the constellations of nerves in the back wall and at the inner top, a woman knows them all.....

I could say more...about the mind numbing pleasure from entering another man in the steaming hot place, maddeningly tight...the arrow of pleasure plowing through the tunnel delicious...

The grinding of the exquisite knob from crotch to crotch, woman to woman, the exploration of mutual spaces of pleasure, womanhood reaffirmed in an erotic sisterhood...

Emotional Bonding and Family 

Heart beats to heart.....

Does the fact that the synchronously beating hearts are housed within members of the same sex diminish the fact that it is the heart beating?

The tremors of love between man and man, between woman and woman, are they different from that between men and women?

The delight of waking up each morning to feel your beloved at your side, his muscles signalling that another man is on the bed beside you, a fellow man, or the soft flesh of another woman in whose arms you have spent the night, as you build a home together in the daily drop by drop sharing of love....

How does that differ between men and women?

Will a man who loves another man not weep when his husband or wife is forced to leave the world through death, as death takes back the life given as a debt?

Has the death of her wife not shaken a woman to her roots?

Yes, gay people love, care for each other, and even when they cant have their own children, some do love the patter of happy little feet about the house, so they adopt children.

The full humanity of gay people is non-negotiable.

 

 

Image sources : left to right:

1. Mignon R. Moore and Elaine Harley, exchanging wedding vows at a beachside ceremony in Los Cabos, Mexico, in 2012.

from

http://www.blackenterprise.com/money/why-gay-lesbian-couples-pay-more-marriage-inequality-laws/

2. http://www.musedmagonline.com/2013/08/no-strings-attached-sleeping-with-my-ex/

3. Lambda Legal/Leslie Von Pless athttp://www.americanprogress.org/issues/race/report/2012/01/19/10962/jumping-beyond-the-broom/

4. Zanele Muholi

http://thepinkgevaar.wordpress.com/tag/corrective-rape/

5. http://queerrace.wordpress.com/tag/homosexuality/

6. Zanele Muholi 

http://www.theguardian.com/world/2013/mar/21/south-african-photographer-black-lesbians-portrait-award

 

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