{UAH} Pemphero

Hello Pemphero Mphande 

Today around 4pm I bumped into a man who fucked my wife in 2020. He doesn't know that I know. I caught my wife messages and after confronting her she admitted to sleeping with this man once. I divorced her immediately. After our divorce, its when I found out that it wasn't once but several times. When I asked my wife to say the truth after our divorce she admitted that it was true they had sex multiple times. 

So as you can imagine I hate this man and when I see him I get anxious, angry and bad feelings. Even my heart beat changes. But yesterday we bumped at a meeting (work related). I saw how he was talking to the women there. Married women and I felt sorry for my ex wife that she opened her legs to this cheap man. But he was very happy and very jovial which I hated so much. I wanted to confront him but my spirit kept saying no. 

During afternoon tea break, Mr P told man approached me and shook my hand. He called me by my name. Mr P mtima unaware like how did this guy know me? I looked at him and imagined him fucking my wife 💔

So I asked how do you know me?? He said well I used to work with your wife, we were very good friends. 

Can you believe the audacity of this man? I pretended to fake a smile and left. I never went back to the meeting again. I drove home. I have been so down. I didn't even go back to work today. I stayed indoors at home. 

I am still thinking how to handle this. How to deal with the disrespect from this man. You can fuck my wife but don't come greet me and lie to me. Kundichosela ulemu. Am I overreacting or I should Indeed deal with this man? Help me please before I lose my mind.

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